他不愿意向你敞开心扉，也从侧面说明了这个人，其实并不想和你太亲近，所以你再掏心掏肺，你们的关系也只能停留在表面上，你不必过于热情，因为没有结果。
He doesn want to open his heart to you, which also shows that this person doesn want to be too close to you, so if you dig your heart and lungs, your relationship can only stay on the surface. You don have to be too enthusiastic, because there is no result.
情感受到委屈，抱怨伴侣，朋友不珍惜你。但是细想一下，爱情和友情，都是你可以选择的东西，你遇人不淑，完全可以和它撇清关系。
Emotional grievances, complaints, friends do not cherish you. But when you think about it, love and friendship are all things you can choose. You can completely get rid of it when you encounter people.
在工作日，有的人可以和你相称，可等你失败时，他笑得最响。
On weekdays, some people can match you, but when you fail, he laughs the loudest.
家庭生活，美貌或丑陋，不外扬
Family life, beauty or ugliness, no publicity
每一次你心情大好的时候，他总是在“适时”羞辱你一把，甚至有时，他对你的缺点比你自己还要多。
Every time you are in a good mood, he is always humiliating you at the "right time". Sometimes, he has more shortcomings than yourself.
你们的婚姻由此开始，以前任何刻骨铭心的，都该结束了。
This is the beginning of your marriage. Anything unforgettable before should end.
和他相处的过程中，你能感觉到的，全是他对你的轻蔑和敷衍。像这样的人，你多坚持了一天，就多了一天受苦。
In the process of getting along with him, all you can feel is his contempt and perfunctory towards you. For a person like this, if you persist for one more day, you suffer for one more day.
因此说，做人一定不要纠缠，不留心的人和事，放手就行了。
Therefore, people must not be entangled. If you don pay attention to people and things, just let go.
