总之，对美好生活的向往和对无尽欲望的满足，应该建立在依靠自己的基础上。
In short, the longing for a better life and the satisfaction of endless desires should be based on relying on yourself.
这样的例行公事，无伤大雅，不是用来欺骗和算计某一个人，而是为了达到自己的目的，是为了达到你和她的爱和温暖。
Such routine is harmless. It is not used to deceive and calculate someone, but to achieve your own goal and to achieve the love and warmth of you and her.
这个时候，你一定觉得他不仅不关心你，还骂你，那一定不是爱你。
At this time, you must feel that he not only doesn care about you, but also scolds you. It must not love you.
恋人之间会吵架一定次数，他们能理解对方的原则，底线。一旦你避免了这些原则和底线问题，你可以有一个长期和安全的关系。
Lovers will quarrel a certain number of times. They can understand each others principles and bottom line. Once you avoid these principles and bottom line issues, you can have a long-term and safe relationship.
他们之间的结局可能是快乐的、悲伤的、满意的或缺乏的。一百种爱情会有一百种容貌，一千种爱情会有一千种容貌。
The outcome between them may be happy, sad, satisfied or lacking. A hundred kinds of love will have a hundred faces, and a thousand kinds of love will have a thousand faces.
在两人确定意图之后，慢慢地，女人就会对男人产生强烈的依赖感，对男人做出的每一个正确的决定，都会无条件的相信和支持。
After they determine their intentions, slowly, women will have a strong sense of dependence on men and unconditionally believe and support every right decision made by men.
一个人突然不爱你了。坦率地说，这不是“突然之间”。只是他不再那么爱你了。这可以从你们的日常关系中看出，你们会有很多摩擦和矛盾，总是争吵。
A person suddenly doesn love you. Frankly, this is not "all of a sudden". But he doesn love you so much anymore. It can be seen from your daily relationship that you will have a lot of friction and contradictions and always quarrel.
