一、花很多时间忘记人和事，然后不要强迫自己忘记。把它放在你的心里，你和他的一切都将永远属于你。你多大的年纪才能明白，带着成熟的微笑去记忆总比孩子气地去忘记要好。Spend a lot of time forgetting people and things, and then don force yourself to forget. Put it in your heart, and everything you and him will belong to you forever. How old are you to understand that its better to remember with a mature smile than to forget with childishness.
二、红豆深深地想念着彼此，从那时起，我们还太年轻，不知道未来的时间，即使如此漫长，足够长的时间让我忘记你，足够让我再次像一个人一样，就像我一开始喜欢你一样。Red beans miss each other deeply. From then on, we were too young to know the future time, even if it was so long, long enough for me to forget you, enough for me to be like a person again, just like I liked you from the beginning.
三、每个人心中都有一个故事。他说不出来。他只能在半夜让那些故事告诉他。事实上，许多故事不需要告诉每个人，而是作为记忆，悲伤而美丽。Everyone has a story in his heart. He can say it. He had to let the stories tell him in the middle of the night. In fact, many stories do not need to be told to everyone, but as memories, sad and beautiful.
四、无论我们的生活是起起落落还是风平浪静，我们都应该学会合宜和接受，试着与不愉快的岁月握手，卸下身心的负担，轻松地生活，过我们的生活！Whether our life is ups and downs or calm, we should learn to be appropriate and accept, try to shake hands with unhappy years, unload the burden of body and mind, live our life with ease!
五、就像这句话：世界上最美丽的情感不是感觉到你有多好，而是感觉到你对我有多好；世界上最强烈的感觉不是我爱你，而是我习惯了拥有你。Like this sentence: The most beautiful emotion in the world is not how good you feel, but how good you are to me; the strongest feeling in the world is not that I love you, but that I am used to having you.
六、找一个对你负责而不是爱的人。爱情是盲目的，生活是现实的。最大的痛苦不是胜利后没有鲜花，而是没有真正的朋友；最大的恐惧不是死亡，而是阴影中的孤独。Find someone who is responsible for you, not loved. Love is blind, life is realistic. The greatest pain is not the absence of flowers after victory, but the absence of true friends; the greatest fear is not death, but loneliness in the shadow.
七、生活是一个不断追求和放弃的过程，拼命追求你从未得到过的东西。在追求的过程中，你会不经意地放弃你已经拥有的和已经追求了一段时间的东西。Life is a process of constant pursuit and abandonment, desperately pursuing what you have never had. In the pursuit process, you will inadvertently give up what you have and have been pursuing for some time.
八、最难得的不是相遇，而是有一个不会放弃你的人。所有人和事，自己问心无愧就好，不是你的也别强求，反正离去的，都是风景，留下的，才是人生！The most rare thing is not to meet, but to have a person who will not give up you. All people and things, their own conscience is good, not you also do not force, anyway, the departure of the scenery, leaving behind, is life!
九、 走过四季，走过流年，也曾失落，也曾彷徊。人生起起落落，生活跌跌宕宕。不一样的心态，就会有不一样的结局，不一样的认识，就会有不一样的人生。人往高处走，水往低处流，站得越高，才会看得越远。最好的心境，是静心和沉稳。Through the four seasons, through the years, also lost, also wandering. Life ups and downs, life ups and downs. Different mentality, there will be different endings, different understanding, there will be different life. When people go up and water flows down, the higher they stand, the farther they can see. The best mood is calmness and calmness.
十、执着的流浪，思念的远方，只是一个人的彷徨，再见的安详，一个人的乐观，多少无缘的情，藏着一个人的忧伤，记忆无奈的思绪，冷漠人生的感悟。Persistent wandering, missing the distance, is only a persons hesitation, goodbye peace, a persons optimism, how many unforeseen feelings, hiding a persons sadness, memory helpless thoughts, indifferent life sentiment.
十一、舞台再大，你不表演，你永远都是观众！人一定要靠自己，因为没有等来的辉煌，只有拼来的精彩。 这个世界上最痛苦离别方式是，从你们分开的那一刻开始，你没有办法再次走进他的生活，他却仍在你的生活中无处不在。No matter how big the stage is, if you don perform, you will always be an audience! People must rely on themselves, because there is no waiting for brilliance, only the brilliance. The most painful way to leave in the world is that from the moment you are apart, you can walk into his life again, but he is still everywhere in your life.
十二、有些故事总是这样，还未开始就已结束；就像有的人，擦肩而过便是天涯。有些风景，如果你不站在高处，你永远体会不到它的魅力；有些路，如果你不去启程，你永远不知道它是有多么的美丽。Some stories are always like this. They end before they begin; just like some people, passing by is the end of the world. Some scenery, if you don stand high, you will never realize its charm; some roads, if you don go, you will never know how beautiful it is.
十三、握一束清晨光，轻轻放在你的脸庞，带给你一天的清凉，愿你从睡梦中醒来，看到满眼的期望，心中充满宁静与安详，那是我送你的完美愿望。你已成为我的习惯，不可或缺的习惯，每天每天，可以不吃饭、不睡觉，却无法不想你。Hold a bunch of morning light, gently put it on your face, bring you a cool day. I hope you wake up from your sleep, see the expectations of your eyes, and fill your heart with peace and tranquility. Thats the perfect wish I send you. You have become my habit, an indispensable habit, every day, you can not eat, sleep, but can not think of you.
十四、随缘不是听天由命，而是用豁达的心态去面对生活。人生不可能总是顺心如意，但持续朝着阳光走，影子就会躲在后面。刺眼却是对的方向。Follow your fate is not to resign to fate, but to face life with an open-minded attitude. Life can not always be satisfactory, but continue to walk towards the sun, the shadow will hide behind. The glare is the right direction.
十五、如果他真的爱你，他会尽快回复你的信息。因为他会时时刻刻想着你，时时刻刻担心你，他不会有心让你等太久，更不用说让你最需要的时候独自一人。If he really loves you, he will reply to your message as soon as possible. Because he will think of you all the time and worry about you all the time, he will not intend to let you wait too long, let alone when you need it most.
十六、世上没有弯路，世上没有谢花，人在这世上能力有限，但努力是无限的。努力做一个善良的人，一个阳光明媚的人，一个积极向上的人，用积极向上的精力去刺激自己，也感染了身边的朋友，你的阳光，世界会因为你而精彩！There are no detours in the world, there are no flowers in the world, people have limited abilities in the world, but efforts are unlimited. Strive to be a kind person, a sunny person, a positive person, with positive energy to stimulate themselves, but also infected the friends around you, your sunshine, the world will be wonderful because of you!
十七、天空是一样的，夜晚也是一样的。只是安静的时候，让不同的人有不同的感受。时光流逝，留下了些许不同的心情。曾经在过去，盟军誓言，经过斑驳岁月的洗礼，只剩下一丝记忆，就像曾经。The sky is the same, and the night is the same. Just quiet time, let different people have different feelings. Time passed, leaving a little different mood. In the past, Allied vows, baptized by mottled years, left only a trace of memory, just like once.
十八、愿你奋力拼搏，去感受世间百态；愿你内心平静而强大，活得恣意潇洒；愿你在这鲜活而张扬的年纪，坦言不枉此生。你当我是个风筝，要不把我放了，要不然收好带回家，别用一条看不见的情思拴着我，让我心伤。May you struggle hard to feel the worlds various states; may your heart be calm and strong, and live freely; may you be frank in this fresh and publicized age. You think Im a kite, either let me go, or take me home, don tie me with an invisible love, let me sad.
